Hello, I'm a Malaysian girl. Im currently studying now. I dated a
chinese Christian guy and recently we broke up because of my
religion status. Actually we planned to get marry legally, I want
to convert to Christian, it's the thing that I really want to do
since i was young, that's why i dated non malay/muslim. However,
his parents dont want us to be together. he told his father that I
was gonna convert to Christian but he said it's impossible since im
a malay and islam.
His
uncle said, the story abou Lina Joy isn't true after all. You know
Lina Joy right?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lina_Joy
actually she did not success to convert herself instead, she got
trapped by them. And now nobody knows what's happen to her. I'm not
sure if this true but if you have any latest news regarding Lina
Joy. Please let me know.
Most
of muslim who converted to other religion in malaysia get caught by
them (JAIS etc) because they didnt convert official and they
married illegally.
Im
still studying and even when I start to work I still cant go
overseas because I have to settle down my PTPTN loan.
my
boyfriend couldnt do anything right now. So right now I want to
solve this without involving him and his family. All I want is to
OFFICIALLY convert to Christian in Malaysia without being trapped
by them.
Any
of you who have information (real) about Malay baptized, please let
me know.
My
boyfriend is soon gonna graduate and will move to sabah for
teaching (about 5 years/ 10 years) actually he told me he gave up.
he tried so hard to be with me but somehow there's no way that I
could convert officially and peacefully. He cant move to another
country because he has to settle down his PTPTN loan and since he's
an English teacher, he can only move when he's 50 years old. Now
he's 23 years old.
I
try to convince him that I'd find a way, but he refuse to try
again.
I
love him so much and I want to be with him.
I
really really need your help Singaporeans. I am so dissapointed
with Malaysia thats all I can say.
I'm not sure what you're asking from fellow Singaporeans.
If it's about love and the one you loved then I believed you have
to get rid of the main obstacle which is the PTPTN loan (whatever
heck it is) first and foremost. Settle it once and for all then you
could be on your way fulfilling your dreams.
As for the religion matters, it's your call and we are talking
about freedom of religion here. Although Singapore practice freedom
of religion, that doesn't mean we could save you from your Islamic
declared country Malaysia. A true faith is not based on exterior
complexion nor country's rules and regulations, it is purely
"skin-deep".
In fact, if you knew that your PTPTN loan is the main obstacle then
you ought to be smarter than the authority by meticulously
eliminating your main obstacle prior to achieve your next goal - to
migrate and convert in overseas etc.
If your guy really loves you then he shall wait for you regardless
time and circumstances. If it's truly love then everything should
standstill apart from your guy's combined efforts to be together
for eternity - if it's genuinely exist.
Or else you want to look for someone new among the Singaporeans
here. 